How does depression feel?
If you or someone close to you has been diagnosed with depression the signs and symptoms listed on this page may be part of the condition.
Behaviour
- not going out anymore
- not getting things done at work or school
- withdrawing from close family and friends
- relying on alcohol and sedatives
- not doing usual enjoyable activities
- unable to concentrate
Feelings
- overwhelmed or indecisive
- guilty
- irritable or frustrated
- lacking in confidence
- unhappy or disappointed
- miserable or sad
"I had all the symptoms. I was getting angry and disassociated from my work. I didn’t want to do the work, I was desperate for a rest."
Thoughts
- 'I’m a failure.'
- 'It’s my fault.'
- 'Nothing good ever happens to me.'
- 'I’m worthless.'
- 'Life’s not worth living.'
- 'People would be better off without me.'
Physical Symptoms
- feeling tired all the time
- feeling sick and run down
- headaches and muscle pains
- stomach pain, butterflies or churning gut
- sleep problems
- loss or change of appetite
- significant weight loss or gain
"My depression made me want to sleep all the time."
Read Emily’s story of depression, anxiety and ultimately, hope
Do i have depression?
Finding mental health support
Your GP can be a good place to start the conversation about your mental health.
We can also help you find other support that’s right for you. This could include talking to our counsellors or helping you find a mental health professional near you.
Connect with our online peer support community
Anonymously read, share and learn from people who are also living with anxiety.The Beyond Blue Forums is a welcoming peer support community.
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